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Training Guide

Safer Sex Work Handbook: A Basic Guide to Keeping Penises Safe and Sexy in the Industry

Other Trade Secrets

Rimming (Asslicking)

Avoid getting Hepatitis A or B or other infections from shit. Fake licking their ass by spitting on your knuckle while lowering your head. Wash your hands after. Use local health resources to get a free hepatitis vaccinations for Hep A and Hep B. If you can’t fake it, apply a layer of lube before using a dental dam, a cut condom, a piece of plastic wrap or latex glove. This increases the sensation and decreases your risks.

 

Sex With Piss (Watersports)

You can ALWAYS say ‘NO’ if you do not feel comfortable when a client requests you use piss during a session. This is also called ‘Golden Showers’, ‘Piss Play’, or ‘Watersports’. It is best to be the ‘top’ or pisser in any situation giving you control. Request to shower afterward. Piss stinks and can reduce your chances of attracting another client. Urine is a sterile fluid, but it can make your stomach upset. You can drink it, but it might make you feel sick afterwards. Not to mention, most people do not like the taste.

 

Sex With Shit (Scat)

You can ALWAYS say ‘NO’ if you do not feel comfortable when a client requests you use shit during a session. It’s NEVER safe to get shit in your mouth (even your own shit) or near your urethra.

If you are forced or have to eat shit, seek medical advice immediately afterward.

If the client wants to eat your shit and you can do it, go ahead. However, do not let him kiss you, give you head, or lick your ass until he has cleaned up afterwards.

 

Sceneplay (Bondage/S&M)

You can ALWAYS say ‘NO’ if you do not feel comfortable when a client requests this kind of service.

It’s NEVER safe to let a stranger tie you up or hit you. You should always be able to escape any situation.

Be the ‘top’ in any scene play, so that you are in control of the client.

 

Barebacking

Pulling out before ejaculation may reduce your risks. HIV and other infectious agents are in pre-cum, so this method still poses a risk.

Use lots of lubricant to help prevent tears that may allow infections to get into your system. Don’t rely on saliva or spit. Also, don’t rely on pre-cum or cum as a lubricant. Avoid lubricants that contain Nonoxynol-9 as it can cause skin irritation.

Allow time for tears in the rectum, urethra and outer skin of the penis to heal before having more anal sex.

Douching or using enemas can strip away protective cells in the rectum. They can also cause small tears or openings as well. If you have multiple sexual partners it best to wait until you have had sex with your last partner before douching.

Get vaccinated for Hepatitis A and B. Barebacking exposes you to fecal matter and other fluids that can carry hepatitis. Active hepatitis can lower your immune system and make it difficult to fight off infections. It is also important to get tested for hepatitis C, which does not have a vaccine but has a cure.

Urinate frequently to help flush out any infectious agents in your urethra. Drink lots of water and avoid dehydration.

Ask your client their HIV and STI status. It is punishable by law to knowingly infect another person with HIV. Look and feel for warts, lesions, discharges and other signs of STIs. If something does not look or feel right, you have the right to stop.