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Training Guide

Safer Sex Work Handbook: A Basic Guide to Keeping Penises Safe and Sexy in the Industry

Selling On The Street

Appearances

Wear clothing that doesn’t have to be removed to fuck. This helps to hide distinguishing marks, keep your money close to you, and allow you to escape clothed in case of emergency. Don’t get caught in car doors – avoid long coats, oversized belts, or oversized or baggy jeans and pants.

Avoid bacterial infections by wearing new pairs of undergarments when possible or turning socks and underwear made from cotton (or cotton blends) inside out on alternating days.

Get access to an ‘anal condom’ (i.e. insertive condom). If you are going to use an internal condom for anal sex, be sure to remove the inner ring. It can be inserted before working on the streets and allows you to feel secure about staying protected. If needed, the ‘anal condom’ can be rinsed out and used more than once, but be sure to check for rips and tears.

 

Negotiating With Clients

Pick your own parking spot or hotel. Don’t leave it up to the customer. Pick someplace that provides you the ability to escape in case of emergency or near a populated area.

Do not charge for each service performed, but raise the cost for amount of time for a particular service. Double the per-session fees for fucking versus a blowjob even if the session is 30-minutes long.

Keep condoms, lube, and napkins in your pockets at all times. Never rely on clients to have them.

You ALWAYS have the ability to say ‘NO’. If a client gives you a bad feeling on the stroll, it will only get worse once you are in his car.

Run against traffic, not with it. The further from the stroll that you get with a client, the harder it will be to turn them down and the fewer opportunities to escape.

The shorter the stroll, the more you have to guard your reputation. In a small town with a small number of clients, you can’t afford to get caught stealing, faking an orgasm, undercutting the going price, or not using condoms.

Stand where you can be seen and where you have a good glare-free vision of the stroll, approaching cars, and a lookout for police.

 

Body

Approach the driver’s window with cautious distance to avoid being grabbed, assaulted with spit or spray paint, or pleasing ‘window shoppers’.

Study the customer, the car, and the door lock system. Electric locking systems may prevent you from escaping the car in some situations.

Arrange price, service, and location while you are outside of the car. Circle the car completely before entering to ensure the number of passengers and to take the license plate number (or pretend to). Be extra careful to look in the backseat for any additional people.

Wave goodbye to work partner (or pretend to) and shout an expected return time. This sends the message that you are not alone and your absence will be noticed.

 

In The Car

Ensure that you can re-open the car door. Always be aware of escape routes. Get a good look at the customer and the car.

You can ALWAYS say ‘NO’. If you find the customer drunker than you thought, see a weapon in the vehicle, or get a creepy feeling, seek an immediate escape.

Get money up front. Let them see you stash your payment and keep it away from the rest of your money. If they try to rob you, they won’t likely find your hidden money.

Keep the door open a crack, if they allow.

 

Fellatio

Know your best position: crouching outside the driver-side door or in the passenger seat. Avoid the backseat or being cramped into the footwell at his feet on the drivers’ side.

 

Fucking

Reactivate lubricant with spit as needed.