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Training Guide

Safer Sex Work Handbook: A Basic Guide to Keeping Penises Safe and Sexy in the Industry

The Session

Fellatio

Suggest strongly to the client that they use a condom to avoid risks of STDs.

 

Swallow instead of spit to reduce risk of infections if you are unable to use a condom. Stomach acids will kill viruses and bacteria. Spitting increases risk by exposing gums or open oral sores.

 

Try not to rest any part of your face (chin, cheeks, forehead) on their balls or thighs. If they have sores, herpes, or lice, you may get them, too.

 

Make sure you can breathe. Breathe through your nose and don’t close your eyes. To maintain control over your ability to breathe, avoid allowing clients to crouch over you or sit on top of you.

 

To deep throat, make a straight line from your chin to your neck. Most people with penises thrust when they cum, so make sure They are at a comfortable depth in your mouth.

 

If staying hard is a challenge with a client, you can squeeze the base of the penis or gently massage the testicles or prostate gland to produce an erection. To fake it, try squeezing the base of the penis or using a cockring. Poppers and other drugs may make an erection more difficult to achieve or maintain.

 

If you are finding it hard to cum with a client, it’s best to concentrate on an arousing experience or attempt to distract the client by getting him off so you can leave.

 

Fucking

Use a lubricated condom and lubricate the entire genital area. If a client refuses to wear one, slip it on with your mouth and swing on top of him quickly (hiding his cock in your hands) so he doesn’t see it.

 

If you are getting fucked, the best position is on top, riding a penis so you can watch the client and their hands. In any position, use your fingers to open your ass and insert a penis yourself to ensure they are wearing a condom and to avoid hurting you. The closer together your thighs are, the shallower the client will be able to fuck you.

 

Keep your hand on the base of the client’s penis to reduce the depth of thrusts and ensure that a condom doesn’t slip or tear.

 

When they enter or penetrate, exhale slowly while pushing down like you’re taking a shit (you won’t). This relaxes your pelvic floor. Their penis will go in more easily. Deeper breaths allow you to remain calm. If you’re nervous, your sphincter will tighten and tear more easily.

 

If you are fucking the client, the best position is to fuck the client from the back or ‘doggie-style’, but all positions require that you watch the client’s hands to ensure your safety. Put the condom on yourself while inspecting the client’s ass for sores, cuts, or lesions.

 

When fucking, try to avoid getting shit or other fluids on your hands or near your mouth. Even when using a condom, take a piss afterward to cleanse the urethra as an added preventative measure.

 

Tips For Condom Usage

TALKING A CLIENT INTO CONDOMS

Try appealing to their safety or their sense of honor about your safety. Remind them of their status as a customer. They are paying you as an expert, so they should trust your advice. Suggest that condoms allow your client to fuck for a longer period of time without cumming.

 

SNEAKING THE CONDOM ON

Use hands to stroke the client and slip the condom on while stroking. If they want to touch their penis and don’t know they are wearing a condom, distract their hands to your chest and nipples. Once they cums, keep firm pressure on condom with lips and hands to prevent semen leaking into your mouth. Sneak off the condom with the hand furthest away from the client and hide it in a napkin, baggie, or pocket.

 

ORAL SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM

Inspect the penis before putting it in your mouth. Avoid getting cum or precum in your mouth. It is best to have them cum on you than in your mouth. If they do cum in your mouth, it is better to swallow than to spit – stomach acids kill viruses and bacteria that cause STIs.

 

Avoid facefucking. Try to control their moves to avoid tears or abrasions to your mouth. Try and keep contact shallow in the mouth and use your tongue on the head of the penis to make them feel like they are going deeper than they are.

 

If you must deep throat, don’t panic. Stress and tension will tighten throat tissues and make them easier to tear.

 

When possible, gargle with mouthwash, hard liquor or hydrogen peroxide to kill bacteria. Don’t brush your teeth. Keep lips, mouth, and throat as wet as possible with water.