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Training Guide

Safer Sex Work Handbook: A Basic Guide to Keeping Penises Safe and Sexy in the Industry

Selling The Client

Clothing

Wear comfortable shoes that come off easily but allow you to run if necessary.

Suggested: Athletic shoes, lightweight boots, casual dress shoes. 
Not suggested: shoes with large platforms, extra-long shoestrings, heavy hiking or workboots and flip-flops or sandals.

 

It’s best to avoid all jewelry, but if you choose to wear necklaces or earrings, make sure they are small and come off easily and can afford to be lost in case of emergency or the client tries to rip you off. Be cautious of crosses or charms that can be used as weapons if taken from you. 

Suggested: Clip-on jewelry, thin necklaces with loose clasps. Not suggested: Long earrings, multiple-loop earrings, heavy or thick necklaces, valuable metal jewelry 

 

Remove all body piercings before meeting with clients because the jewelry can be grabbed onto and ripped out. If body piercings are part of your selling points, be clear with clients about proper play to avoid them cutting their mouths, chipping teeth, or accidentally injuring you during a session. 

 

Keep the clothing simple. The fewer pieces of clothing you have, the fewer items to keep track of, have stolen or lost. Also, it is fewer items to grab if you should need to leave quickly. You might want to make sure your clothing is ‘straightjacket-proof’ and can’t be pulled over your shoulders to lock your arms.. If you are looking to cover any distinguishing marks on your body, long sleeve shirts might be useful.

 

 

Avoid wearing underwear. Underwear with thongs or g-strings might irritate or chafe your asshole. Avoid underwear with straps or strings. Jockstraps allow easier access and do not need to be removed to fuck, but be cautious of a client’s ability to pull on the elastic straps.

 

 

Backpacks, bookbags, over-the-shoulder bags are a risk. If they don’t carry necessary items (condoms, lube, etc.), leave them in a locker or at home. The straps can be used to hold you or choke you. Only bring items you can afford to lose and never wear bags that go around or near your neck or shoulders. Stash keys and other important personal items where they can be safe. Pockets are useful but are the first place a thief will look.

 

Other locations might include inside your shoe, a hidden pocket in athletic pants, or hidden lining of a baseball cap. Try to keep them accessible to you if you need them

 

Body

Keep pubic hair trimmed short to avoid getting it pulled on accident or intentionally. This also enables you to check periodically for body lice and other STDs.

 

Make sure you can see your clients by wearing contacts or glasses if you need them. If you are using drugs, be aware that your vision may be obscured, and it is best to leave lights on at all times to know the location and behavior of your client.

 

Always maintain body language that suggests confidence and control by using eye contact, direct language about what you are comfortable doing with your client, and watching their hands. Even if you are high, it is important to state clear limits about what you are willing to do and stay focused on the behavior of your client.

 

Keep your mouth moist by drinking water to avoid gum, lip, or throat irritation during sex. Cocaine and other drugs can dry out your mouth – so take care to drink extra water if you are getting high. Sucking hard candies or chewing gum also helps keep your mouth wet. Don’t brush before taking clients.

 

Wait until after your done with all clients before douching, using enemas, or flushing out your system. Doing it between clients raises your risk of catching a bacteria or virus. Another option is to douche many hours before a client allowing time for your system to recover and reduce risks.

 

Urinate often. It will help flush out bacteria and other germs from your system or acquired from your client during oral sex. Cocaine, speed, and other drugs may make you feel as if you don’t need to piss, but it is best to at least try. 

 

Be aware that infections or open cuts increase your
chances of getting an STI if they come into contact with a client’s fluids. Bandage hangnails, papercuts, and inspect your dick and ass for any abrasions or cuts.

 

If you are getting fucked often, it is best to drink lots of water, eat oily foods, and lots of fruits and vegetables to help keep your system clear. Cocaine and speed (like a laxative)
may force your system to flush often.